Light House Home, Inc. regains non-profit status

Lighthouse Home regains nonprofit status

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Rena Hill, left, and Lighthouse Home Director Vanessa Rorie stand inside the kitchen of the women’s shelter.

By Philip Sayblack
Staff Writer

A local women’s shelter is celebrating after recently regaining its nonprofit status.

The Lighthouse Home Inc., at 1016 Eastern Avenue, recently received notification from the Internal Revenue Service that it has regained its status as a 501(c)3 non-profit organization. Director Vanessa Rorie has been operating the house for the past 17 years. She said the house serves as a safe haven for women who are homeless and recovering from drug addiction or other circumstances.

Rorie said the Lighthouse Home lost its non-profit status approximately four years ago because it was not bringing in any funding. She said she started saving last summer to be able to pay the $850 fee that is included with the application for organizations wishing to be considered nonprofits, adding it took a lot of determination.

“It was extremely stressful saving the money and waiting to find out if we had regained our nonprofit status — but I’m a hustler,” Rorie said. “I worked hard and made it happen.”

She said she was overwhelmed when the IRS’ letter came declaring the house a nonprofit organization again.

“I was so happy that I was on the floor crying,” Rorie said. “The women living in the house had to pick me up off the floor. We’re all so excited. The whole community had been waiting for this.”

Rorie stressed that now that Lighthouse Home has regained its nonprofit status, she has started reaching out to businesses throughout the area. She added donations to the shelter will go primarily toward covering the cost of daily operations.

“We have to be able to feed the women, keep them warm, buy medications, etc.” Rorie said.

Though she didn’t have a fundraising goal set now that the shelter has regained its nonprofit status, Rorie said she hopes the shelter could raise at least $100,000 this year.

Six women currently live at Lighthouse Home Inc. A seventh is expected to move in soon, Rorie said.

Shelter director finds hope in tenants

Shelter director finds hope in tenants


Tammy Cannon, center, a tenant of the Lighthouse Home, talks with a housemate that didn’t want to be identified on Friday along with Founder and Director Vanessa Scaife Rorie, right, at the nonprofit home.

By Corey Davis
Staff Writer

For more than 10 years, Vanessa Scaife Rorie, director of The Lighthouse Home Inc. has created a safe environment inside a house in Rocky Mount for women who are homeless and recovering from addiction.

Ironically, in the past few months, Rorie has leaned on the women she helps to get on their feet again, after becoming blind in both of her eyes.

“When the women at the Lighthouse realized the severity of the illness, they became more spiritual beings, so I wouldn’t be afraid,” Rorie said. “I could feel them unifying in the home and extending more support to a new resident, who is fighting alcoholism. When I lost my sight, that should’ve caused the doors to close, but it didn’t happen that way. The women became my sight. I wasn’t losing anything; it was an even exchange.”

While she continues to take in women struggling with substance abuse, Rorie said the majority of the women living in the house are homeless, including Donna Henry, who has been in the house for about 10 months.

Despite having a bachelor’s degree in business, Henry said, there were several unfortunate occurrences which resulted in her ending up at The Lighthouse Home. She got laid off from her job, evicted from her apartment and suffered medical issues.

Henry is on the verge of losing her things in storage because she cannot pay the storage bill.

“I really got depressed and someone told me about Vanessa,” she said. “I was afraid that I wasn’t going to be accepted because I didn’t have an addiction, but she took me in. I do work one day a week and I try to pull my weight around here as well. All the women around here are sort of like sisters.”

Not only is Rorie the director, but she also is like a counselor and motherly figure, too, Henry said.

“My goal is to try to find a good job, so I can take care of myself again, which would open up a spot for another woman in need to have my place,” she said.

Rorie, who has been a licensed massage therapist for the past two years to bring in income, said the main priority for The Lighthouse Home is being reinstated as a nonprofit 501(c)3 organization. She said it would help with urgent needs for the house such as finishing repairs in the bathrooms.

“Saving $800 for the nonprofit application fee is now taking a backseat,” Rorie said. “Friends, family and my Unitarian Universalist fellowship have donated house supplies to take some of the financial burden down. My medication expenses for my eyes are the biggest challenge, and holding onto the new resident struggling with alcoholism is a challenge. But if anyone needs to be there it is her, a woman in the dark. There is plenty of light to to go around. Time, encouragment, food or anything to secure the stability of the home is needed.”

Rehab home seeks help with utility bills

Rehab home seeks help with utility bills

By Darla SlipkeFriday, December 23, 2011

“It’s given me the strength to endure what I didn’t think I could endure.”

Lighthouse Home resident

Sharion Richardson was 22 years old the first time her uncle introduced her to cocaine.

Since then, she has gone months or even years at a time without using, but she always has come back to the drug.

“It takes me away from feeling,” said Richardson, now 44.

She relapsed Dec. 16.

Afterward, a friend persuaded her to call Vanessa Scaife Rorie, founder and director of the Lighthouse Home.

Women come to her when they are broken, distraught or have given up on life.

Scaife Rorie helps them heal by giving them a home and support.

Nine women, soon to be 10, live in the blue four-bedroom, two-bathroom house on Eastern Avenue.

Scaife Rorie and her business partner, Elnora Birth, pay most of the $60,000 it costs to run the house on an annual basis. Scaife Rorie even took on a part-time job to help pay the bills.

She’s asking for the public’s help this winter.

The Lighthouse Home is struggling to pay its utility bills. Scaife Rorie said they would appreciate donations during the next couple of months to help keep the house warm.

Some women support the house by paying rent, but many do not have jobs. It’s hard for many of them to find jobs, especially in this tough economy, Scaife Rorie said. She doesn’t turn people away who can’t pay.

“We’re struggling but we’re making it because we have to have this home for the next person,” Scaife Rorie said.

She bought the house in 2001, after she finished a drug and alcohol rehab program. She said she didn’t like being alone, and she got a good deal on the house.

It seemed to be the universe’s way of telling her she should use it to help others, Scaife Rorie said.

She called the house the Lighthouse Home because she was in the dark when she was using drugs and alcohol. She wanted this place to be a beacon of light for other women. Scaife Rorie said she added the word home because that’s what it is.

“The word home is so important,” she said. “I think everyone deserves a home, a comfort.”

The women can stay as long as they need.

Richardson, who moved into the home on Tuesday, has lived at the Lighthouse Home twice before. This time is different, Richardson said.

“I want to really dig down deep inside and see what it is that keeps me going back to it (cocaine),” Richardson said. “I know it will kill me.”

She said she knows if anyone can help, Scaife Rorie can.

“I think I can do a lot of things that I can’t,” Richardson said. “She knows all about that.”

Richardson choked up as she discussed how she hit rock bottom.

“It’s OK, baby,” Scaife Rorie said. “We’ve got you.”

Women at the shelter share a bond and support each other like family.

When Laurie Hendricks came to the shelter, she didn’t expect to stay long. Eight months later, she’s still there.

“I’m not going anyplace else,” Hendricks said. “This is home.”

Hendricks, 52, is a recovering alcoholic. She said she decided to leave the home once before she was ready, but Scaife Rorie persuaded her to come back after she realized that was a mistake.

Etta Thompson, 45, has been at the shelter for two years. During that time, she said, she has learned to love herself and accept herself.

“It’s given me the strength to endure what I didn’t think I could endure,” Thompson said.

She was addicted to cocaine for six years. She said she lost everything, including her family.

As of Wednesday, Thompson had been clean for one year, four months and 21 days. Now, she and her four children are closer than ever before, she said.

One resident, who asked not to be identified, said she sees this as her last chance.

Her addiction stripped her of everything – a big bank account, a successful career, a house, family and a marriage.

The Lighthouse Home has given her a place in which to work on healing and overcoming her addiction, she said.

People can mail donations to: The Lighthouse Home, Inc. at P.O. Box 636, Princeville, N.C. 27886. Donations are tax deductible.